𝐄𝐫𝐨𝐬 ... 𝐂.𝐆. 𝐉𝐮𝐧𝐠

The ensuing split between sexuality and the anima is, by the way, frequently found in men, and often manifests itself as a neglect of Eros, which is the essence of the anima.

Men are rarely split off from sexuality, because it is too evident for them, but what they lack is Eros, the relational function.

Men often think they can replace the relational function with reason. They are proud that they don’t let themselves be controlled by affect, because this would be womanly, tantamount to weak. No Eros, for God’s sake!

This lack is what women most complain of in marriage, and is what so disappoints them. For what they seek in a man is the Eros, the capacity to relate.

- CARL JUNG