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As told by Bas Waijers ...

𝐒𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐞: 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐲 𝐯𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐧 𝐜𝐚𝐟𝐞́ 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐜𝐫𝐲𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐟𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐦𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐜 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐦𝐚 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐤𝐨𝐦𝐛𝐮𝐜𝐡𝐚 𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐢𝐫. 𝐖𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐨𝐟…

𝘌𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘙𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘥 – A spiritually aware man with a man-bun, wearing loose linen pants and an organic hemp T-shirt.

𝘚𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘯𝘢 𝘏𝘶𝘮𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘣𝘪𝘳𝘥 – A trauma-informed, new age goddess adorned in bohemian layers, an amethyst pendant, and a crown braid.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: [𝘴𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘪𝘳, 𝘱𝘢𝘭𝘮𝘴 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘪𝘯 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵] Namaste. Before we even begin, I just want to hold space for this container we’re creating. I’m sensing an aligned energetic resonance here, and I just want to honor that.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: Wow, thank you. I feel that, too. It’s refreshing to connect with a man who’s clearly done the inner work. Honestly, I can feel your solar plexus is absolutely vibrating right now.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: That’s because I did a cacao ceremony this morning and journaled for two hours about my wounded masculine. I needed to unpack some shadowwork around the shame I’ve been carrying from my last relationship.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: [𝘨𝘢𝘴𝘱𝘴, 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵] Ethan, that’s so beautiful. Shadowwork is so underrated. Honestly, I’ve been deep in my sacral chakra healing lately. My womb space has been feeling… heavy, you know? Like it’s carrying intergenerational trauma from the patriarchy.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: [𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥, 𝘦𝘺𝘦𝘴 𝘨𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨] Goddess, I feel that. And I just want to say your willingness to articulate this is profoundly brave. Your womb energy is sacred. Thank you for sharing that vulnerability with me.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: Of course. Honestly, Ethan, I don’t have time for surface-level connections any more. I’m just going to say it: I’ve had three spiritual awakenings in the last year alone, and I’m not interested in anyone who isn’t on their fourth or higher.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: Totally. If you’re not sobbing on the bathroom floor at 3 a.m., questioning the meaning of existence, are you even evolving? And just to be transparent, I’m currently in my third Saturn Return—not my fourth awakening yet—but I’m actively working with my intuitive coach to expedite the process.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: I love the accountability. Quick question, though—what’s your Human Design?

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: Generator, 6/2 profile. But I have a Reflector Moon, so I’m very fluid in how I process energy. How about you?

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: Manifestor, 3/5. I knew it. I could feel your sacral response when I walked in. Honestly, though, astrology-wise, I feel like we should clear the air immediately. I’m a triple Scorpio with a Capricorn Moon. My intensity can be a lot for some people.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: [𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘤𝘦𝘴 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘯 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵] Thank you for naming that. I deeply honor your watery depth. I’m a Leo Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Pisces Rising. I hold space for intensity, but I need you to know upfront: I have an avoidant attachment style that I’m actively reparenting.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: Ethan, that awareness is everything. I’m anxious-preoccupied, but I’m integrating it with somatic therapy and daily breathwork. How do you feel about polyamory? I need to know now because my nervous system can’t handle ambiguous connections.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: I appreciate that clarity. I identify as solo-poly, but I prioritize ethical communication. I have three partners at the moment, but they’re all energetically aligned with my purpose, and we do weekly check-ins with a relationship coach. Transparency is non-negotiable for me.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: [𝘦𝘺𝘦𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘯 𝘢𝘥𝘮𝘪𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯] Wow, that’s incredible. I don’t have any partners right now because I’ve been celibate for six months to recalibrate my divine feminine energy. But I’m ready to open my Yoni portal to someone who can meet me in unconditional love.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: [𝘓𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘤𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘳, 𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘷𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘢 𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘵𝘺 𝘵𝘰𝘯𝘦] Honestly, I don’t want to be too forward, but… I can’t help but feel like our kundalini energy could braid together in a tantric spiral so powerful it might awaken timelines we didn’t even know existed. I can feel it in my Lingam, which always functions as a sacred dowsing rod for me.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: [𝘨𝘢𝘴𝘱𝘴 𝘴𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘭𝘺, 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘨𝘳𝘪𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘺𝘴𝘵 𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘵] Ethan, that’s… intense.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: Is it? Or is it just the truth we’re both afraid to name? Because I can already feel my heart chakra opening and my perineum tingling to the idea of worshiping your divine feminine… energetically and physically, if you’re open to it.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: [𝘭𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘭𝘺, 𝘧𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥] Ethan, you’re dangerous. But also, that’s the most sacredly erotic thing anyone’s ever said to me.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: I’m just a vessel for divine expression. What happens between us is simply the universe fulfilling its own desire for union.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: [𝘴𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘦𝘺𝘦𝘴] That’s so powerful. Honestly, Ethan, this feels divinely orchestrated. But I need to ask something crucial before we proceed: Where do you stand on gluten?

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: I’m gluten-intolerant, but don’t impose that on others. Your food choices are your sovereign decision. That said, I would never date someone who eats factory-farmed meat. I hope that’s okay.

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: You’re speaking my language. I only eat foraged mushrooms and wildcrafted greens. My body rejects anything that isn’t vibrating at the highest frequency.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: [𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘤𝘳𝘰𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦, 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴] Sienna, I feel like we’ve done more soul work in this conversation than most couples do in five years. Would you like to join me at an ecstatic dance circle next week?

𝐒𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐚: Ethan, I would be honored. But let’s set an intention first: no shoes, no judgment, and complete surrender to the flow of the universe.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧: Absolutely. I’ll bring the sage, you bring the sound bowls. This is going to be magical.

𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘣𝘰𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘢 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘪𝘯𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘦, 𝘦𝘹𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘶𝘥𝘭𝘺, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘢𝘻𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳’𝘴 𝘦𝘺𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘴𝘪𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘦 𝘢𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘳𝘢𝘸 𝘷𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘯 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘦.

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